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The Cord Cutting Technique - Cutting Those Negative Cords of Attachment - For Good!
The safe and permanent way to find emotional freedom and heal the pain caused by past events or old and current relationships
This CD provides support & positive reinforcement
We all have energetic connections with other people. They develop as a product of our interactions with them. We continue to make new energetic connections with other people every day. When we fall in love or have children, we allow certain energetic connections to grow and get stronger and stronger.
I think almost everybody who shows up in our lives does so for a reason. It's as if we are meant to be attached to that person in some way, for a set amount of time, because they have something to teach us, just as we have something to teach them. The process of that, is such, that it can have a good effect on us, or a bad one.
Good, can be, things like acceptance, comfort, contentment, delight, ecstasy, friendship, glee, gratitude, happiness, kindness, peace or love. Bad or negative, as well as the destructive emotions mentioned earlier, can be things like disappointment, discontentment, disgust, frustration, horror, pain, rage, resentment, vulnerability and worry.
So What? You might ask.....What can I do?
Learning to recognise the emotions that are involved in our negative relationships with others gives us a measuring stick as to the strength of cord attachment we have to that person. If you can feel or 'see' the emotion, and hence the cord and its effect, then you can respond appropriately to it.
How can I tell if I have these 'connections'?
Do you ever think of someone, only for them to ring shortly after? Do you long to be with somebody and can see them vividly in your mind's eye? Do you sometimes think of someone and have the shivers?
Are these feelings the product of fear, apprehension, loathing, friendship or love? Do you often have regrets about a situation or the person responsible for those regrets? Then you still have a connection to them.
It may not be a physical one, like holding hands, nor do you have a telephone wire between you, but you do have an energetic connection. Energetic in that thought is energy, and while you think of another, you are sending out energy in the form of thought.
Lasting Pain Free Emotional Relief!
Sometimes these cords are insignificant weblike connections that are easily brushed aside or which fade over time. At other times they aren't so insignificant and can seriously reduce the quality of our everyday life. Cutting the negative cords of the past, that bind us to other people, is the single most important and best way to move forward in life.
If you find yourself unhappy a lot of the time, then NOW is probably a good time to do The Cord Cutting Technique. This can work in all areas of your life - in relationships, at work, your health, homelife, your life's purpose and even making business decisions.
Help yourself make the right choices and remove the emotional clutter that keeps you from moving forward. Fear based emotional attachments are unhealthy. They drain your energy and may be responsible for much pain and sorrow.
Negative attachments have nothing to do with love, or the healthy part of a relationship. Cutting these negative cords will release much fear, resentment, anger and unforgiveness that you may have been holding onto without even realizing. See below, for instructions on how to take part.
Who can benefit from this decording experience? Provide examples
Okay, Okay, I get it... What do I have to do?
Taking part is very simple. If you've got this far, then you already have an idea of what it is that troubles you the most. A relationship with a parent, a relative, a spouse, a child. It might have something to do with your surroundings, your neighbours, your job, your health, or your faith.
The CD talks you through cutting 3 cords. These can be 3 different things, or one major thing and 2 smaller aspects. An aspect is something that supports a belief, or a thought that shows up afterwards.
For example (1): You might have some major doubts that your spouse still loves you, even though they tell you time and time again. So you decide to put this, 'self-doubt about love' cord, or this, 'am I worthy' cord, as number 1. You can call the cord anything you want.
There may be aspects that support your belief, like, 'the day you stood me up at the restaurant and I felt ashamed because people were joking about me'. Whether or not there was a justifiable reason for the belief, the action supports the belief that 'I'm not important enough'. Or, the time you had to rush back out to buy flowers because you forgot my birthday. These actions are not supported by the talk and so this emotional doubt is allowed to fester and grow.
Over time, insecurity starts to become a part of everyday life and part of the relationship, on both sides. If you love this person 100%, then dwelling on these kinds of details chips away at that percentage. Cutting these cords will allow you to see through the debris and make the changes necessary to take the relationship forward in a positive way.
Another example (2): You interact with people all day, so you might be in the supermarket and checking out. You share pleasantries with the cashier, you pay for your goods and go. The interaction was okay but not that memorable, so any connection you have to that person is minimal and easily dismissed.
Contrast this with getting back to your car to find you have inadvertently blocked somebody's car in and they couldn't quite get it past you. They are pissed at you and yelling angry comments at the so-and-so careless driver of this car, who blocked them in for half an hour, meaning you of course. You are walking into a storm and you have a basket of shopping to get in the boot of your car before you can move it. But the other person is ready to explode. It would not be unusual to feel a bit apprehensive at this point.
However it pans out, you will have thoughts about being threatened by this irate shopper, about the potential for damage to yourself or your car, or anyone with you. You may feel a little foolish, especially if a crowd is now turning to look at the commotion. You may be upset enough to go over and over it in your mind, perhaps thinking about what you could have done differently, or said differently, to calm things down.
Engagements like this, whether physical or not, tend to have a lasting impact on us, and are not so easily dismissed. The connection was forced, strong, violent, and remains strong because of the emotional impact it had at the time on your unconscious thoughts.
Now, you can't change what happened, but one of two things will likely happen subsequent to this; one, you may have some intense feelings and emotions that all revolve around fear of some kind. Usually these are directed inwards because of what might have been, or what I should have done differently. Two, longer term, you may feel a little vulnerable when confronted by the same situation, or even thinking of a similar situation that may arise, reliving the same emotional pain over and over again.
The fact that you keep it going over and over in your mind, proves that you are still connected to the event at an energetic level. By cutting any links to these intense feelings, you can let them go, and in many cases, dismiss them, just as easily as the conversation with the cashier.
You will find The Cord Cutting Technique an invaluable source of calm and disconnection at times like these. You may even wonder how you ever managed before. Of course, the fact is, many people carry around intense feelings like these for years and are never able to process them. If this is you, I very much hope you will give The Cord Cutting Technique a try. You've got nothing to lose and so much to gain!
The point is to BE SPECIFIC! Be specific, and not global.
"Mother doesn't love me" - is NOT specific. "Mother hit me in front of my friends on my birthday" - IS specific.
I can't stress this enough....... When choosing your 3 cords, to be the MOST EFFECTIVE, BE SPECIFIC!
So pick 3 things, or as many as you want. Write them down if you think it will help and put the list in your lap. If you only pick 2, you can 'tune out' for the remainder of the CD and just enjoy the organizing relaxation. Or, if you pick 10 things, you may feel like listening again in a few days time to catch the others, a few at a time, once you've taken onboard the meaning and lessons of the first, and then subsequent sessions.
The other option is to just Go with the flow. You might like to just go in and make it up as you go along. As you relax and 'tune in' to the meditation, you will feel a wonderful glow of calm and peace come over you. Any pain that moves around inside of you will show up as a disturbance in a muscle, limb or area of the body. You will instinctively know that this is the time to deal with the physical pain, or the emotional pain, and whatever it is that it relates to.
So now that you are ready, find a really comfortable chair in a quiet spot and play the CD or mp3. I promise you, it really is that simple!
How to Order Your CD Online or Through the Post
The CD costs £6.95, postage paid, or the equivalent, worldwide. That's less than the price of 1 UK prescription + postage and a lot less than the cost of 1 therapy treatment at your local spa. Yet, you can use this technique as often as you need too.
Alternatively, send your UK cheque (made payable to "Philip Chave") or cash payment, to: Mr P Chave, The Haven Healing Centre, Draycott Rd, Cheddar, Somerset BS27 3RU.
If you do send cash, please wrap it up in a padded envelope in several layers of paper so that it is not viewable through the envelope. I will not be responsible for cash lost in the post, but it shouldn't be a problem if you take sensible precautions to conceal it. Cheques do take a few days to clear, so expect a short posting delay.
Please don't forget to include, the CD/DVD/MP3 title you are ordering and your return address. Thank You.
Testimonials - This CD/mp3 sells all over the world. Here's What People Have Said
Note 1: Please Apply Caution: THIS CD CONTAINS A DEEPLY RELAXING MEDITATION ROUTINE. PLEASE DO NOT PLAY/LISTEN TO THIS CD WHILST DRIVING OR OPERATING MACHINERY, OR AT ANY OTHER TIME WHEN YOU NEED TO BE ALERT, OR PAYING ATTENTION, OR OTHERWISE OUTWARDLY FOCUSED. THANK YOU - Phil
Note 2: Whilst this CD has proved very effective for many people, you have to want what you wish to achieve with relaxation meditation, really, really want it. You have to be motivated and willing to work with it, not just pretending or hoping that this meditation CD will do it for you. If you are motivated and believe you can do it, you will do it!
The important thing is not to give up! Building up small, but measurable successes, helps the body to make permanent changes. I recommend persistent use of this CD. For optimum results please try to listen to your CD everyday for a minimum of 30 days. Try to be as consistent as possible in order that you might achieve your goals. - Phil
Note 3: Copyright Notice. All material produced by The Haven Healing Centre and the Distant Healer Home Therapist Series is protected by copyright law. You may make one backup copy of your CD or MP3 for your own personal use. You may not otherwise reproduce, distribute, publicly perform, publicly display, or create derivative works of this material, unless authorized by The Haven Healing Centre. Thank you for your understanding.
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DISCLAIMER: This information is not presented by a medical practitioner and is for educational and informational purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read.|
The Haven Healing Centre is located at: The Orchard, Draycott Rd, Cheddar, Somerset, BS27 3RU